things I hate ; Being Weird

I am a weird person. I act a little strange sometimes. Society tells me "Its okay to be weird", "Be weird, you're different", or something positive. It's a good thing to be weird because you're more free and spontaneous.  Even my friends say that.

When I act actually do act weird, people say to me "You're weird" or they give me a weird stare.




what?

What is classified as weird then ?

From my point of view, weird is just something uncanny and something that is not common.

I am just so confused and I hate it when people say that. I only get a tiny bit offended because I get 'weird' stares quite often.


When someone says to me "You're weird", I don't know if that's a compliment of an insult. Either way, you should just be happy about yourself.

I accept the fact that I am weird and I'm proud of it. It's quite hard to accept the fact that I'm weird, because there are hypocrites in the world.

I have also noticed this:
Good-looking person + weird = It's okay
Average-looking person + weird = err... weird

When someone acts uncanny or unusual, people say "She's weird".
Then the person gets upset, then someone will say "You should be wierd, you're unique"... 
Then someone acts uncanny or unusual, people say "She's weird".

Then the person get upset, What an interestingg cycle.

I've used 'when people say...'. These 'people' are just everyone, including myself, friends and society.


I also try to avoid the word 'weird' because some people can find it offensive, so I replace it with 'unusual'.

I'm honestly happy with the way I am, :). Being weird is better, because you are yourself and you shouldn't care about what others think. I'm not going by the motto 'YOLO'.

The less you care, the more happier you will be.

Last Day of April, the 30th